Red Flags

10 Types of Toxic Men:
How to Stop Dating Them,
How to Avoid Being One

by Alexander Butler

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Red Flags is a positive, hopeful book about finding love and connection. Written by a Master Life Coach, it's a practical guide that demystifies the psychology of toxic men and the women who are drawn to them.

If you’re a woman, this book will help you understand why so many men seem confusing, conflicted, inconsistent, aggressive, or downright toxic. There is nothing wrong with men themselves! Rather, most men are put through a toxic training programme in their childhoods, and this shows up in predictable ways in adulthood. You’ll learn to see through the masks that toxic men wear, understand why they do what they do, and you’ll find advice about how to stop finding yourself attracted to those kinds of men.

If you’re a man, this book will help you understand yourself and the men around you better. If relationships feel frustrating or confusing for you, or if you're stuck in repeating patterns of unhappy relationships, or if you feel a secret insecurity about your masculinity, this book has answers for you. Equip yourself with the knowledge and skills to break free, live a more authentic life and support your male friends and relatives.

In this book you will:

  • Learn to quickly spot 10 of the most common types of toxic men

  • Explore the psychology behind toxic masculinity

  • Meet and properly understand the true enemy: the programming that most men receive in early life

  • Find a lot of down-to-earth advice about how men can heal from what’s happened to them

  • Find hope that relationships between men and women can still be healthy, nourishing, exciting and fun!

  • See what healthy, potent masculinity really looks like

  • Get some warnings about all the bad actors and bad messages that try to profit off the vulnerability of wounded men

If you’re looking to build happy and nourishing relationships, if you want to understand why relationships fail so often, or if you're trapped in repeating cycles in your love life, then this is the book for you.