How I can help you
What has brought you here?
life feels wrong
Life feels wrong in some way. Perhaps you feel stuck, frustrated, bored or fed up. You're ready to shake things up and try something new.
you want to understand
I help people get clear about what they want, what matters most, what drives them, what makes them feel alive.
I also help people understand their emotions and doubts, to build confidence, and break free of old patterns of behaviour.
you want to take control of your life
Together, we can work out what a truly successful, fulfilling and satisfying life would look like, and make a plan to get you there.
you want to find the right person
My style of coaching combines a logical, analytical approach with a profound depth of knowledge about what holds us back and how to overcome it.
Coaching sessions with me are motivating, supportive and inspiring.
I have helped hundreds of people make astonishing, life-changing breakthroughs.
My inbox is filled with emails from clients who are amazed and really happy about how their life is going now. I regularly watch people do things they thought were impossible.
After 10 years of coaching and 20 years of training and research, I’m confident in my ability to transform anybody’s life. I am trusted by successful business owners, executives from major corporations, creative professionals, academics, and people from every other background. Together we achieve amazing things.
The goal of my work is to help you build an unshakeable foundation, to unlock your confidence, to help you understand and master yourself, to help you craft a life that feels truly fulfilling.
Results
After working with me, You will…
Be able to speak with confidence and strength in any situation.
Align your whole life to suit your needs and desires.
Be a better friend, partner, parent or leader.
Be able to manage your feelings, including fears and doubts.
Step away from repeated patterns and self-sabotaging behaviours.
Have a background sense of peace, based on the knowledge that you’re in control.
Find a deep reserve of strength, purpose and determination.
Set your sights on goals and possibilities that seemed impossible before
My approach: Deep Coaching
Solving real-world problems
My coaching is highly practical. I’ll help you make decisions, set goals, track progress, overcome barriers and build better relationships. I have helped many people solve life-long problems with a logical, analytical approach.
Changing the shape of your life
We’ll work out what you really want, and steer your life in that direction.
Using tools and techniques that I’ve developed over the years, I’ll help you get control of your life and understand your challenges in new ways. You’ll change your relationship with yourself, find clarity and mastery of your emotions, thoughts and beliefs.
Your relationships at home and at work will begin to change as you bring a new perspective and energy to them. As you unlock greater confidence and become more empowered and effective, new things will become possible for you.
Know who you are
Understanding is the thing that makes the difference.
My clients go from confusion to clarity, from frustration to focus, from paralysis to momentum.
We’ll work together to understand:
Who you are, what you want, and where you’re going.
Why your life is the shape it is, and how to change it.
How to be in charge of your emotions.
What has always held you back, and how to overcome it.
This depth of understanding is really what sets my coaching apart.
My clients find answers to the most important questions they will ever ask, and this transforms their lives.
People who understand themselves at this level behave differently and build their lives in a different way.
You don’t need to know what’s going on at this deeper level when you first contact me, we’ll figure that out together.
It’s not just knowledge either. I’ll show you tools, techniques and approaches that put this understanding into action.
The person you were meant to be
At the heart of my work is a simple idea:
there is a true self somewhere within you, and the journey to find this true self will change your life forever.
This person has been buried under layers of expectation, masks, fears and traumas. We would all live happier, more nourishing lives if we made the difficult journey to find our true selves, but sadly most people never do.
This journey changes everything, including how we feel and what we’re capable of. It dramatically increases our capacity to solve problems, feel confident and create a life that feels amazing.
For the first time, you will feel integrated, settled in yourself, and whole. You will have a strong foundation of knowing yourself and your gifts.
You will be ready, and available, and you will know where you’re going.
That is the depth of transformation I offer through my coaching work.
The experience
a hugely positive, motivating force in your life
I will always believe in you, always want the best for you, and encourage you to reach your full potential in any situation
Our sessions will amplify your strengths and help you resolve things that hold you back, so you'll feel excited, engaged and more positive
clarity, focus and vision
I will help you think through problems, challenges or difficult situations so you feel much clearer and more confident in your decisions
Our sessions will always give you fresh perspectives and new ways of looking at the most important elements of your life
challenge and inspiration to reach new heights
We will set clear, achievable, ambitious goals and then I'll keep you focused and motivated to reach them
You'll be inspired in every session. You'll feel alive and positive about what you can achieve
You will feel recognised and understood
Every session will feel special. You’ll feel safe in the knowledge that your coach can understand you deeply, notice things that nobody else would, hear things behind your words that you didn’t know were there.
I’ll share my insights, offer guidance and challenge you to go further. You’ll learn things about yourself you never knew.
I will share 20 years of insights, training and research into the way people work
Working with me, you’ll learn the secrets of why people do what they do. You’ll understand yourself better, but you’ll also be able to apply this knowledge at work, in your friendships, in your relationship and (if you’ve got kids) in your parenting.
This knowledge becomes another catalyst, opening up possibility and opportunities.
“It was like breathing again after years spent underwater – Alexander helped me to form an understanding of myself that I could not have imagined before. He helped me get clear on my goals, and I have started to feel optimistic about the future in a way that I haven't since I was a teenager. Life feels fresh, and I feel comfortable in my skin.”
“Alexander sat me down, and listened to my half-baked goals, and within 30 minutes – the first half of the session - he had helped me devise an intelligent strategy to earn more money. I've been seeing him for nearly a year now, and my earnings have gone from very low to £50k per year. I am running my own business, have hired a salesman, and am working in the job of my dreams.”
- Dominic, Script Writer & Director, age 28